Your partner knows, and guess what. They want to have sex with you. This brings me to what I feel is one of the most important parts of enjoying sex as a fat woman: You’ll need to overcome the idea that your partner doesn’t know how fat you are.
I know many women who would love to have sex with smaller partners, but feel that it wouldn’t work mechanically, that two drastically different bodies couldn’t come together in a pleasurable way.Īdditionally, many women who do have smaller partners tell me they don’t totally enjoy sex because they feel self-conscious, embarrassed, or unfulfilled because they can’t “let go” during sex. I believe those issues are very important, but since I cannot speak to those experiences, I did not feel comfortable addressing them. I welcome all here with that experience to speak up and contribute if they feel comfortable. Please note: Fat sex is a very big issue (heh). Because my area of expertise is limited to sex with size difference as a woman with a vagina, I chose not to explore other areas of fat sex, such as the mechanics of two fat people having sex or trans fat sex for women without vaginas. There are many misconceptions about how fat people have sex, especially when one partner is fat and the other isn’t. I’m here to explore that topic, specifically the issue of being a fat woman having sex with a smaller partner. The short answer? It works just great, and I love it. Most women I know would not be comfortable with that size difference, and in candid moments, friends have asked, “So, how does that work?” When I met my current partner a year ago, I was at my fattest, about 150 pounds heavier than he is, making our sex the most drastic in terms of size difference relative to my past partners.
I’m a fat woman who has had lots and lots of awesome sex almost exclusively with partners much smaller than myself. Originally published on Persephone Magazine.
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